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Two Kinds Of Tears


From Tanzania Corespondent Lute Wa Lutengano…

My friend Dr. Lemwel Makando was busy doing the rounds in his hospital, the St Thomas in down town Arusha when suddenly he heard unusual sounds of shots and explosions in the street below. He peaked through the window and God forbid, what he saw was a typical war zone scene.

There was total chaos as well armed policemen were shooting and tear gassing multitudes of Arushans on that street who in return were shouting and throwing all types of missiles. And then there were live bullets ricocheting around the streets as tear drenching smoke billowed from the alleys. This was no doubt becoming the saddest day for Arusha.

In no time his hospital was in utter chaos. Some patients jumped from their beds with their drips hanging from their bodies and rushed down and out running in all directions. One man whose wife was about to give birth under Dr Makando’s watch shouted ‘I want my wife! I want my wife!’ Dr Makando was perplexed asking him it was not possible for she was sedated and just about
to give birth. The man insisted on carrying his wife as where she was.

Luckily he did not have enough strength to lift the very pregnant spouse.

It was then that Dr. Makando noticed the neighbouring six storey glass-walled shopping mall structure on fire. It seems some of the lobbed teargas bombs had broken through the windows and torched some of the furniture on sale in there.

This mortified Dr. Makando for if the fire would rage in that structure it was likely that his hospital full of admitted patients would catch fire. And that would be a disaster to behold. His efforts to call the fire station and police were futile.

Without thinking much he found himself rushing out and walking with his hands up towards the police squad who were shooting his direction and onwards to the armoured car, named by its victims as ‘ngunguri’ where he told them of the impending disaster. They should call the fire brigade immediately, he urged them.

The response was immediate. Makando was told to move off the huge boulders laid on the road for the ‘ngunguri’ to drive out. They were too heavy and could only be lifted off with the held of the soldiers.

It was then that he rushed back to his hospital and tried, very much in vain to calm his very hysterical patients. A few minutes later a patient with fresh bullet wounds was brought in for his attention. He did the necessary to control the situation but could not rush the patient to the
regional hospital for further treatment. There were no ambulances and after all, all roads were closed as street fighting was raging.

It was only later that the patient was rushed to the regional hospital using a fire tender which had come to subdue the fire. Dr Makando, now sweating and his eyes welling with the nasty tear gas then entered his surgical theatre and performed a caesarean to that very pregnant lady. A few minutes later there cries of a newly born baby boy were heard.

The new father, who all this time, was pacing up and down the corridor, was invited into the theatre and on seeing his newly born baby, he literally collapsed on the settee with tears profusely rolling down his cheeks. These were teargas tears and tears of joy.

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The Miracle


pregnancyFrom Lama J…

In my Halloween costume, I was feeling very happy to do what I’d wanted to do for long time – dress up and show my dark side!  It was Friday, the 30th of October, when my husband and I joined our friends.  I was wearing a dark witch costume for a night of Halloween fun; my husband was somebody called Zoro.  Although not a part of my culture, I always thought Halloween looked like a really good time and it’s become quite popular here in Dubai. I had to fly to Kuwait on business the following day, transforming my personality from the crazy partying witch to a business woman, talking about banking and the stock market, but we still had our fun.

The next day I got ready to head to the airport, but wasn’t feeling very well. Don’t mistake this for a hangover, as both my husband and I don’t drink and we were home by 12:30, but I just didn’t feel right and didn’t know what was going on with me. I felt hyper one minute and tired the next, but I took my Emirates flight to Kuwait and upon arrival, went straight to work.  My first night there, alone in my room, once again, something just wasn’t right. I ordered some food, but ended up eating nothing. I was up and down with everything and soon called my husband to tell him.

The next day was much of the same and after two nights in Kuwait City, I headed back to both Dubai and my usual routine.  I went through a hard time at the office that week. My mood was all over the place and a lot of the time I was ready to fight with the wall. This is when I realized I needed to talk about it to my husband. He immediately suggested a pregnancy test, although I hadn’t really thought about it at all.

And so, after my husband returned home from the pharmacy with two home pregnancy kits, I went to the bathroom. Soon enough, I was done. After taking in a deep breath, I looked down at the pregnancy tester, my eyes wide open. That’s when I knew. I was going to be a mom.

I was both scared and happy at the same time. After staring at the tester for several minutes, I came out of the bathroom screaming, “Babe, I‘m pregnant!”

The first 3 months were hard. My female friends started telling weird and frightening stories about pregnancy. I was scared and confused. They made me feel like I was going to come out on the other side of a 9 month pregnancy half dead and useless. My mom told me not to listen to women. “Many of us are just bitches by nature,” she said.

I heard stories like how a woman’s face often becomes paralyzed or that not being able to breathe was going to be common.  I also heard I was going to vomit every minute of the day, have terrible headaches, and be dizzy all the time. And this was  just for starters.

Now more than fourth months into my first pregnancy, much of what I heard has been proven to be total nonsense, while some has turned out to be true. With that said, it certainly hasn’t been the hell described to me by so many.

I am now in my 5th month and new stories still come my way all the time. Almost every day I hear things like, “You’re not big enough, you should eat for two.. do you want to starve your child? Why do you exercise? Going to the gym is so dangerous! Do you want to kill your baby? You will be so big after delivering, it will take 3 years to lose the weight. Don’t breast feed because your hair will fall out and you’ll go bald. The delivery itself is like seeing the angel of death and saying hi to him.”

I mean really – I was hoping to find at least some kind of positive feedback about being pregnant!

I’ve felt down many times and emotionally mixed-up, but my husband always supports me in every way. He also tells me, again and again,  never to listen to all the rubbish people throw at me.

As the months continue to go by, I’m always talking to myself. “I am going to be a mom,” is what I say most often and this always puts a smile on my face, no matter how I’m feeling that day.

I know I’ll be tired through all this, but I also know the best things in life never come easy. I can’t wait to be able to talk about my own experiences with other women who want to be mothers, but I can promise you this – I will be sure to share the positive side of things.

Prophet Mohamed – peace be upon him – once said, “Heaven is under the mother’s feet.”

In the end, each life brought into this world is a miracle, and these words show how mothers are honored for what they do and all they go through – for every one of us. All I know is that I hold the greatest respect for all the mothers out there.

And more than anything else these days, I cant wait to be one myself…

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Top Ten Indian Baby Names


indian-namesWhen it comes to baby names, people are often interested in the meaning or significance behind them. Whether it’s Anthony, Ali, Hiroko, or Oksanna, names are the first thing we know about someone. Most Western cultures name their children after a family member or even a freind, while Eastern culture names sometimes do the same, but the names themselves often have specific meanings and nuance. With a wildly diverse selection to choose from, we decided to narrow our list to one country. Below are the ten most popular baby names in India over the last year.

  • 1.  Sowmya / boy or girl / polite
  • 2.  Aarush / boy / first ray of sun
  • 3.  Aarushi / girl / first ray of sun
  • 4.  Aarthi / girl / way of offering prayer
  • 5.  Aaleahya / girl / sunshine
  • 6.  Aahan / boy / dawn
  • 7.  Aahna / girl / alive
  • 8.  Aakesh / boy / lord of the sky
  • 9.  Aalok / boy / light of God
  • 10.  Aaku / boy / shape

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